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--Diah Mastura--
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Sunday, December 30, 2007
it is not easy to be in a relationship and maintaining it at the same time...
i for one am agreeing to that.. Thats wat me and the bf agree.. yet at the same time.. there are always inevitable conflicts.. these conflicts are not to make me and him further apart.. it in fact actually allows both of us to understand each other better...
*the saying.. men are all idiots.. well.. it can be true.. when the men themselves want to be known as idiots.. but women arent that smart also.. since both men and women are created with different types of hormones and functions.. it is not a surprise that conflict arise between them most of the time.. the key to overcome it is understanding and communications.. that is crucial.. the men need to understand why the women react in such a manner and then talk it out after both parties are back in their rational state of mind..
Basically he will or might be your life partner, your best friend, your friend,your pillar of strength.. your everything.. well.. not essentially your everything.. coz they may not be the same as your dream job or dream home.. anyway.. relationship is also about making things work.. yeah.. the reason that you are in this relationship is that you find a certain connection with that someone that you dont seems to share with other people.. it is a bond.. a special bond that you have with each other.. and since that bond is the one that makes you two to be exclusively involved, then you have to try and make things work.. it takes effort too to make a relationship work.. especially the foundation of the relationship..
if the foundation is weak.. it will be easily shattered by the challenges that comes along.. to say the least.. it takes two to tango.. two to fall in love and two to make it work.. that's how things are now for me..in a way.. you can say we are best friends.. we practically tell each other everything.. rarely there is any secrets between us.. and yes.. there are fights.. lots of it sometimes.. and at the end of each fight.. we understand each other better.. learn a little bit more about each other.. that's what we are all about.. it's nice to have a best friend in your someone special...
Thank god i have him to pull me back into my sanity at times.. amazing how someone who is in my life for a long while became a best friend.. just when i need someone to talk to.. someone to just be crazy and listens to my views and ideas.. just someone to listen.. that what he is..i share my deepest emotions with him.. (with some help from him though.. i mean.. i dun really say much about myself or my own most deepest emotions to anyone.. it took him some effort to get it out from me).. slowly.. he became my someone special... till now..
honestly.. i dun really have to say much sometimes.. he knows what is on my mind.. it is just nice to have that going on for me.. coz i really dun say much on my mind sometimes.. esp when it is all so cluttered and fuzzy.. he knows how i works.. though there are times where there are technical problems or the brainwaves clash.. and that is when we need to sort things out and figure what went wrong.. hmmMmm.. someone that i knew.. and know.. guess when it's time to meet someone.. you meet that someone..
So.. I guess im ready to blog about my resoultions for next year.. Coming 2008, my aim will be to start going diligently for my driving lessons and get my license end of year 2008 at least.. And be a good and commited teacher.. insyallah*
Friday, December 28, 2007
.jpg) Saw this magazine and its specially dedicated to teachers :) Cool huh ;)
 On the other note, i treat the family dinner last night. I told mum not to cook and ordered 'Arnolds' Yummylicious :P i still have yet to post about my new year resolution. Yes i noe.. Like wat i said earlier... Wait till im ready to blog about it.. *if im in the mood*
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
A great week of holidays :)
Me and some of my relatives went to Johore yesterday. Boy, it was tiring but quality time with ppl u love will always be fun no matter how tiring it is, agreed?( zilah's style)
haha... And i enjoyed the day very much :)
.jpg) My cuzin,ifah, eating her burger :)
.jpg) Lunch at MacDonalds... .jpg) Foot reflexiology:P .jpg) I enjoyed this the most!!! Karaoke :) Lets do tis again !!!! Singapore this way <--- .jpg) We had gift exchange among the teachers. And this is what i got from Yani :) The esprit pouch :P Been itching to get it.. Thank god, i didnt went to get it last week!!! The chocolates( not from yani) was my favourite too!!! LOve it :P
Term 1 of school coming very soon... That means Back to the timetable and books again :( That equals to another year of _________???? Happiness... I hope :) New year resolution? Not too soonn.. Wait till the next entry ( if oni im ready )hahah :P Right now, its festive mood :P Excuse me pwease :P hehehhe..
Saturday, December 22, 2007
Went out with dear for lunch yesterday. I have been craving for Nasi ayam penyet recently. So i drag the bf to the Nasi ayam penyet restaurant at bugs. For those who knows me pretty well, will noe that im one very 'cerewet' and very choosy about food!!
And surprisingly wen i came here for the first time with two of my friends, i fell in love with it :) And decide to bring dear there yesterday :)
 The $6 meal.. Expensive but worth :)
 The signboard :)  After the lunch, i was having a sweet tooth craving for donut. So we walked from bugs to plaza sing as my dear said that there is a shop tht sells donut there. There was a shop that sells donut at the basement 1, but they did not have my favourite, Oreo donut.. So i wasnt that happy with dear for suggesting that place. As initially, our plan was to go to orchard as there is tis shop that sells my favourite donut. But dear, suggested that we checked at plaza sing, as he happened to see one shop that sells donut. So you can see, i was very tired after that long walk and the disappointment grew as i was being delayed to get the donuts. What more, the moment we went out of Plaza sing, it was pouring like crazy!!! I wasnt that happy and gave dear that "*******" face :O Kesian him..hahaha... layaning my nonsence.. Thank god he was patient enugh :) We continued walking in the pouring rain despite getting wet, NO VERY WET!! You see, we had to share an umbrella and it was raining very heavy. And that one umbrella doesnt cover us much. My fault for leaving my umbrella at home. Lucky the bf brought it for me.. Sigh.. The wet road...  And yes, it was worth going tru all the trouble to get 3 pathetic, no, 3 delicious donuts :P Though we were both wet, very,very Wet!!  Thanks dear for yesterday. Im sorry for being an ass gf yesterday..
Thursday, December 20, 2007
 Nothing is easy... Especially in love ... It cuts through your heart deeply,& only you yourself know how much pain you're suffering. The word sorry couldnt absorb so easily,& wont heal the pain instantly. Let time heals the pain, As days pass by, probably everything will be fine.  When you're in a relationship, it means youve agreed to be together. &so, going through everything together. Meaning... the good times, the sweetest candies, the rough patches, the big hurdles... Both parties just gotta stay strong.Share things together, but not to keep anything from each other. Communication. Real communications.
Along the highway, they'll learn things together.Explore together.
Using both heart &mind together, see how they connect, &mould us better.
People makes mistakes...
Just learn from it.
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Me and dear agreed to have this exchange gifts day jus before the new year.. Not that we are celebrating christmas or wat.. But its jus for the fun of it :)
Once a while, pampering wont hurt rite;)
Hehehe...
Dear...Im eyeing on these bags....
heheh :P
.jpg) Or maybe this? ;)
.jpg) I noe that dear is eyeing for a new shoe.. Im torn whether i shld get him a shoe or a shirt.. Hmm..I'll consider... .jpg) Thanks to the new and renovated T.M.. And the pay day.. Hands itching for shopping :P wheee....
Jus came back from watching movie with my dear baby.Been a long time since we last watched a movie togther.. So we managed to catch "Alvin and the chipmunks" at T.M. Thanks to dear for booking the tickets online :)
.jpg) Anyway, dear came to my house during the weekends. He brought my new com :) And help me fix it too :) Love it lots!!!
.jpg) Thanks dear. And yes, im sure u felt pampered by your future m-i-l( hopefully).. .jpg) I love dear's pda. I want one too!!! Can I???? .jpg) Anyway dear got us( me,grandma and my cuzzy) this, last Sunday :) Thanks for the lovely donuts :) Yes, they love it.. And yes, u gain more points from grandma.. And i got the lecture from her too ;( She tot i was bullying you, YOU ASS!! .jpg) Last Friday, we went to the new Hadgen Daz at T.M and got this.. Romantic tak.....hahaha... .jpg) Great week :) Im in love....hehehheheheh ;) winks*
Saturday, December 15, 2007
At last the orientation cum the tea session has ended. Now the onni thing left is 3more ptc to be completed and im done :)
Next week, i WILL have to do my ptc in the morning, and then following dear to his friend's house warming in the evening...( they just got married recently)
Since pay day is nearing.. Me n dear have planned to get for one another a new year gift :) So what shld i ask from himm??? aS for him, he has told he what he has been eyeing for... aND next week, its shoppng time for the both of us!!!!
woo hooo.... cant wait ;)
Love you lots dear :)
2years more to go.... ;) wink*******
Monday, December 10, 2007
Went out with dear last Saturday. First stop was Changi airport T3. Then brunch at Long John silver though initially wanted to go to fig n olive, but in the end we settled for long john. Then off to Chocz for chocolate fondue :)
Thanks huney for the great day :)
Changi airport T3 is HEYUGE. like, really. something like the size of 63 football fields, according to the tour guide.
 yeah, there’s even a tour of it, or rather, the transit area, at $3 per pax.
 There was talk about the chairs being VERY expensive, so we all made sure we sat on them, hehE :p  dEAR taught me how to take this pic anyway...hahah :)  I felt the place looked kind of a bit dull though, i guess coz we’re so used to seeing bushes of pink bougainvilleas sprouting around the other terminals to liven up the place.  The very interesting tour guide :)  The UFO-shaped like departure area as mention by the tour guide :)  Im dying to go to this shop. One and only shop in spore!!! Sadly, went we went last Saturday, it wasnt ready yet :(  The transit mall-waterfall :)  OoOo.. Braun Buffel :)  The pathway for the ants/ other tiny insects to get from one place to another :) cool huh...  Oh, and there was a butterfly park, with no butterflies yet, but i’m not sure how the butterflies would like being in such close proximity to the roaring engines of airplanes. or maybe butterflies are deaf. how many would escape and be caught in the plane propellers, i wonder.  Looks like it’s set to be a tourist attraction in itself, with a whole bunch of retail shops slated to open, and even a transit hotel for travellers’ convenience. it’s supposedly ‘green’, with the special roof design and other ‘natural’ features using tropical greenery and waterfalls, koi gardens.  oOOoO... And i love the chairs!! Expensive beb! Our tickets :)  Smiley me :)  pOSING, before submitting the T3 contest forms :)  Putting our tickets togther.. And look it somehow forms a heart-shaped. Or is it jus me :P  After the tour at T3, we decided to head down to Marina sq. for brunch :) There was this NeWater free tour from T3, but yah, i wasnt that 'interested' so we didnt go. Brunch was great. I had combo 3 meal with an additional 6shrimps with cheese :) while dear had barbecued fish sumthing... hahaha..  After brunch dear told me that he had a surprised for me. And guess where he brought me to? Chocz.. heheh :) The menu...  oOoOOo... cHOcolate fondue :)  Dear taking the pic of the fondue using his Nikon cam.  "Make a wish" and blow :)  My creative food-art :)  And there was Barney show held there too :) heheheh :)
Sunday, December 09, 2007
Random tots..
I used to think that photography,gadgets, C.s game are childish. And wheneva dear ask me along to join him for a game of C.s either with him or with his friends, i always told him to count me out. Though dear manage to make an attempt to teach me how to play the game. I did fall in love with it and join him and his friends for a couple of times, but i guess, my love for it didnt last :P hahhaa... Thanks to his PSP that he bought, which is now, one of my favourite past-time :P
I guess, guys and gadgets and more gadgets can neva be separated. Just like what dear said to me "girls and accesories and bags and shoes can neva be separated too rite dear,*wink*"
yah..yah.. ok fine... But as long, im still your no.2 love rite? hehehe...
U noe, y im his no.2? Coz to me, his family is still his no.1 love no matter wat..Without his family especially his parents, i would neva get to meet my dearest love :P ala.. so touchy kan *
Anyway, thanx dear for the treat yesterday at chocz. I love chocolate fondue :) we get ours too k one day, as you promised ;)
 I will update more about it.... wHEN im free and not tired k :P
My food "art" :) i can come out with weird and *creative* things at times :P hehe... thnx dear, it was a superb and splendid weekend with you, to make up for the dates we couldnt have over the weekdays :) muacks!!!
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